I'd say I'm a lot more sincere than I've come across as....and I get why through my own faults that is the case.
The whole thing with trying to get h2ofwlr into the hall of fame?
That was totally sincere. I still to this day think it's a farce to have a MN Waterfowl Hall of Fame and not have Alan Nikolai/h2ofwlr in it. Especially when considering how much more relevant duck forums were at the time....he was easily the most well known waterfowl hunter in the state, has a true passion for conservation, and a heart of gold.
I get why people look at how we've feuded and the utter lack of respect I've shown at times throughout the rivalry....but when it comes down to it, every rivalry is built off of respect for whomever your up against. Whether it was the great Celtics-Lakers rivalry, Vikings-Packers, Yankees-BoSox, every true great rivalry is built on having respect for the opposition despite wanting to beat them and even hating them at times. Why does no one in the division view the Lions as a true rival? Because they stuck and always get beat up on. You come to relish and respect the opponents that are capable of knocking you square on your ass. In an odd way you admire them, kind of have fellowship/brotherhood with. I've been a pretty big dick at times but you better believe if I was out on Swan and saw h2ofwlr treading water after his non-alumacrap boat took on a big wave.....you better damn well believe I'd be right there to help him out and make sure he's OK. My online "feud" shit ends online---I'd never turn a blind eye to anyone in the real world when it came down to the basic premise of one human helping out another human.
Look, I have no friends, very little family left that is willing to put up with me....don't really mind having that be the case......
.....so this is really my only sounding board to get out a lot of shit that I'm sure many of you find bizarre, sad, and probably pretty alarming at times.
When you're struggling to deal with life and make sense of what has happened to you......well, I guess I find it comforting to have an audience....even it it's a single person....that when I mention what happened is there to go, "Wow, that's really fukced up."
Without having that---you lose a sense of that being the case---and I personally, have a really hard time grounding myself in reality.
When everything is really fukced up too often people become lost because what is really messed up becomes normal.
More than anything, I appreciate the reaction after I get something out because it helps me go, "Okay...that's what I thought.....my life really is that messed up....it's not just me losing a grip.....this really is that bad which means there's the chance that things can swing back out of where I'm at to being really good again.....what I'm experiencing isn't normal and can change for the better.....Whew!"
This is my therapy. This is what let's me get out what I need to get out....to other dude's just like me, and it's totally anonymous.
There's a reason why it's called 'Alcoholics Anonymous.' The whole idea is that it's supposed to be a safe place for people to share the fukced up side of them without fear of being labeled with the stigma that goes with it.
That's why I'm here.
It's not totally selfish....I do enjoy the interaction and reading what others have to share as well. In a lot of ways I really like all of you.