I'll be in a wedding this weekend, no hunting for me. First opener I've ever missed since I started duck hunting when I was 14. As it's gotten closer to the date, I will admit, I've gotten a little sadder than I actually thought I would. I'm really gonna do my best to put on a happy face, not make any smart ass comments about my seething resentment and bitterness and just have a good time. It really will be a good time, but the cost is too high. A man should never be expected the miss duck opener. Especially from friends he made thru duck hunting.
Oh.... but the old school duck camo vests we will be wearing under our suits will show everyone what serious duck hunters we are. Embarrassing.
Once the wedding is over, I will be firing shots about how wack the wedding date was.
BE A FU(KING MAN and take some command in your relationship. My fiance and I went back and fourth over wedding dates, she really wanted a fall wedding. I told her no fall wedding dates, and in return I caved on many other things, which I cared much less about. A fall wedding date is not something I was going to allow. Many of my friends are hunters, I'm a hunter. It would be so **** rude to make them miss any weekend in the fall, let alone opener.
I'm going to burn probably 6 hours of PTO, gas/lodging/attire will probably be north $700 by the end of it. But I get to be known as an important person within one social circle for ONE night and miss duck opener, super worthwhile trade off.